So I am an area rep. for the organization that I get foreign exchange students from. I represent other students, and right now I have two boys in Price. I hope that this next year I can rep. kids in our area, so that I am closer and can keep a better eye on the kids.
My student from France is being crazy down in Price. He has had way too much freedom from supervision, which was corrected quickly by a family move. I have spent the past two days on the phone trying to get things fixed. I also hate the fact that the weather around here is crappy, and I can't just jump in the car and be there in person to get things under control.
My French student is quite the smooth talker...I cannot say whether this is a cultural thing or what, but this boy can talk his way out of alot. Hopefully he will straighten up his act, because I really hate to see him go home, because of poor choices.
Generally these kids are really great kids, but as with anything else a few stinkers get through the cracks. If anything I hope that my overbearing personality scared him into being a good kid the rest of his stay here. Unlike popular opinion about me, I actually don't like to be a meany, but when kids force my hand I can dish out some severe consequences to bad behavior. I hate to see good kids getting out of hand, because popular belief is to try and be nice and sugar coat everything in life as to not cause issues to develop later in life.
If everyone hasn't noticed kids now days are getting worse, not better. I totally believe that it is a lack of respect for adults, people in any type of authority position, etc. So this leads me to believe that being passive all the time is getting kids nowhere. Rules, boundries, consequences, and following through with what a parent says, I have found that these things have worked better for me and my kids, better than time out and giving my kids too many choices.
Anyway, I got a little lost there, sorry. I hope that I got through and that things will settle down. Next week when I call to check on everyone, I am hopeful that I will hear that things are going well.
I am thankful that Klara is doing really well and that she has been able to adjust to our crazy family!!